Sunday, January 24, 2010

In what cases is it necessary to require an apology after someone has disrespected you?

It is NEVER necessary to REQUIRE an apology.





An apology should be given VOLUNTARILY by the offender, without being asked or required by the offended person.





And the offended person should give forgiveness even if no apology is offered.





Otherwise, resentment and the need for revenge set in, and the relationship is ruined.In what cases is it necessary to require an apology after someone has disrespected you?
In any case that you feel that you were disrespected. Confront them with what you think they did to disrespect you and give them a chance to verify it, if in fact it was meant to be disrespectful, and if so, expect an apology if they too felt it was out of line. They may not admit to it, and you may not get one, but at least you let them know that you're not having it.In what cases is it necessary to require an apology after someone has disrespected you?
This is a broad a slightly vague question but i would say in all cases. If you sincerely feel disrespected by something someone did or said to you there's absolutely nothing wrong with expecting an apology. After all, don't you feel you need one? If the answer's yes, then most likely it was bad enough to leave a scar, slight as it may be.
Kira, sorry, but your answer would get us killed by the Iranians, or get Israel killed by Hamas if that position were to be taken globally.





The only time an apology is necessary is when the disrespect is greater than the ability to shrug it off. You certainly may turn your back on that person until you both die, if the disrespect was that great, EVEN IF he/she apologizes.





But Kira is right about one thing: don't harbor the grudge. It will eat you up.
You should never ';require'; an apology. You should be willing to accept that other person no matter what they did to you. If they've really hurt you, I don't see anything wrong with distancing yourself from them, but it's never the right thing to harbor hatred or a grudge.
That is a broad question and I don't konw how to narrow it down into a relevant context but I think every instance where your feelings, dignity, integrity or self worth has been undermined without case... every such case would warrant an apology from you.
well if you done something wrong then you aplogize,


being nice and aplogatic calms angry ppl
In all cases. People will treat you exactly how you demand to be treated.

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